Dear CRF: Should I Care?


Dear Code Red Flag,
Should I care that my man watches porn? Is it really bad?

CRF Response
The only person who can answer that question is you. There are some couples who incorporate porn into their intimate relationships. Then there are others who think watching porn, as well as maturbating is cheating.

Neither is right or wrong, per se. It all comes down to what you feel comfortable with.  If your mate watching porn makes you uncomfortable then I suggest you reevaluate if that person is the one for you. After all,  they need to be comfortable being them self in the relationship and you should be comfortable too. Don’t try to force what doesn’t fit.  No pun intended.



About Dena Reid, Esq.

Founder and President of Code Red Flag, Dena Reid Esq. is a legally trained Conflict Mediator, Best Selling Author, and Motivational Speaker.

Ms. Reid’s mediation practice specializes in family and domestic disputes. She holds a Bachelors of Science from Cornell University as well as a Juris Doctorate from Georgetown University Law Center. Additionally, Ms. Reid holds numerous certifications in mediation and arbitration from the Scheinman Institute on Conflict Resolution. Ms. Reid has also worked as Commissioner of Mediation for the Federal Mediation & Conciliation Service. She uses her trainings and experience to help families and couples deal with conflict in a productive and mutually beneficial manner.

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